The Art of Approaching by Thundercat

If you're like most guys, you don't even give yourself a chance of succeeding with women because you never get the courage to go and actually approach a woman, right?

It's nothing to be ashamed of, in fact, it's very common. In the past, advice to fix this problem usually involved lots of motivational type stuff. And while this may work in the long run, if you're anything like me, you want something that you can apply today.

Which is where the Art of Approaching comes in. As you can probably guess, it is a book to help you overcome your fear of the approach and give you inspiration to approach women in ways other than "Can I buy you a drink?".

As I began to flick through the pages, lightbulbs starting flashing in my head. I had so many ideas and things I wanted to try, I just had to get out there. But I remained calm and read the whole book, cover to cover.

What I did then was memorise some of the ways to approach women that sounded good to me. I then called up a friend and organised to go to a club that night.

So off I went, confident as ever about my new methods for talking to girls. And boy did I have fun that night! Ok, while some of the things I tried didn't pay off (Some methods will not be aligned with your personality) most of them worked fine and I ended up having some great interactions with girls.

The result? 5 phone numbers and a buddy who wanted to know what the hell I was on! Not only was it great being able to talk to girls without getting the cold shoulder, but having my friend envy me was also pretty cool, even though I'll never tell him that.

So if you want to learn how to approach women without any fear, then this book definitely has to be part of your e-library.