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How to Write Emails that Instantly Trigger Attraction in Women – Part I
If you are trying to attract women instantly through an online dating service, you will need to make your emails compelling. Keep in mind that women receive tons of messages so you have to do something that sets your email apart from other men or women. In this first part, we wanted to provide some general tips on how you can be successful.
You need to remember that every email counts. Even if you are sending out a simple, two-line introduction, make it count. After all, why waste precious time sending out one lame email after another, only to find yourself frustrated and without a date. Instead, plan to spend time writing your emails carefully, no matter the length.
Although emails are not the most expressive way of meeting someone, if written well and carefully thought out, they do work. Learning to construct a good email make take a little time and practice so be patient. After telling a woman your name, you need to compliment her on something you saw in her profile that interested you.
Although you could start out saying how beautiful, she is or what a great figure she has, you will reach her heart better by saying that you read something in her email that you found special. This tells her that you actually read what she took time to write, which will definitely start your conversation out in the right direction. If you notice that you share a common interest, such as Harleys or travel, bring that up as well.
Rather than spend the entire email focusing on you, make sure some of it focuses on her. Yes, you need to provide information on yourself but the entire email does not have to be self-absorbed. Remember that most people that go through online dating services are self-absorbed so you want to come across different from the average person.
Then, unless you have a natural wit, do not try to come off as a comedian. Unfortunately, many people try to break the ice by saying something funny but because they are not funny, it comes across silly or worse, stupid. Avoid using outdated or slang phrases that are simply not funny. For instance, starting out with something like, “You must be tired because you’ve been running through my mind all day” is a surefire way never to get a response.
Another important tip on using emails to attract women is that timing is important. For instance, if you send out emails on a Sunday, you may not receive many responses. One reason is that over the weekend, she was out, only to be faced with one loser after another. Therefore, on Sunday, she is not overly interested in meeting anyone, even someone nice. However, sending an email on a Tuesday or Wednesday would likely result in more and better responses.
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